People started arriving as early as 9 a.m. for a service that was not scheduled
to start until 2 p.m. Everybody wanted to make sure they had a chance to
bid their own personal farewells to Episcopal Supervisor Edith White Ming, who
was called to glory a week ago, while asleep in her own bed, in her own home in
Atlanta Georgia.
Wednesday's gathering, called a Service of Praise and
Thanksgiving In Celebration of the Life of Mrs. Edith White Ming, was held
at St. Matthews, at 57th Street and Summer Street in Philadelphia, the city that
hosts the headquarters of the First Episcopal District, where Bishop Donald George Kenneth Ming,
serves as the Presiding Prelate. Services were held Monday at Big Bethel
in Atlanta Georgia, where the Mings lived and previously served in Episcopal
office for the Sixth Episcopal District.
There was an air of sorrow with an
undercurrent of joy pervading the church. Sorrow that a true foundation
block in the African Methodist Episcopal Church had been called home, but the
joy of the certain knowledge that Edith White Ming had indeed gone on to a
better place.
The procession line to view Mrs. Ming as she lay in state in the
massive St. Matthew's was long and steady and wound from its rear entrance all
the way to Mrs. Ming's coffin that dominated the center of the front
aisle.
Dressed in a light blue chiffon dress, Mrs. Ming looked like she
was at peace. A miniature white grand piano, placed just above her head
reminded all as they passed of her love of music. A embroidered handkerchief,
bearing her husband's name reminded all of the love she had left behind in her
husband, Bishop Ming.
A floral arrangement in white and blue spelled out AME,
the church that so loved Mrs. Ming and that she so loved.
It was a muted
murmur as friends, family and African Methodist Episcopal Church stalwarts from
near and far gathered to pay their last respects to this vibrant First
Lady of the Church.
St. Matthew's looked big until the crowd persistently
began to fill it to over-flowing in anticipation of the start of the services
for Mrs. Ming.
The service was officiated by Bishop Richard Franklin
Norris, who is in his final days of pastoring St. Matthew's before leaving for
his new post as the Presiding Prelate of the 14th Episcopal District in
Africa. The long procession of family members, preceded by a cadre of
Bishops and General Officers of the A.M.E. Church, began a few minutes before
the start time of the service.
Amongst the honoraries were A.M.E.
Bishops Vernon R. Byrd, Philip R. Cousin, T. Larry Kirkland, William P. Deveaux,
Vinton Anderson and Decatur Ward Nichols, and the World Methodist
Council was represented by Bishop Neil Irons. The General
Officers were represented by Christian Recorder Editor Ricky Spain and Treasurer
Dr. Richard A. Lewis.
The Bishops and officers were followed by the Ming
family with Bishop Ming being the last to take the long walk up the aisle
towards Mrs. Ming's casket. As he made his way on this somber journey,
Bishop Ming would pause on occasion to acknowledge a friendly, familiar face to
either his right or his left. He was gracious even in the face of sorrow.
A
organ prelude reverberated throughout the sanctuary as everyone made their way
to their seats. The melodious strains of the pipe organ soared to the
wood-beamed polished rafters. The aisles now were populated with folding chairs
to accommodate the massive crowd that even this large church could not
seat.
The processional was "Glorious Things of Thee Are Spoken"
which was followed by the Hymn of Praise a robust reading of "To God Be the
Glory."
Bishop Vernon R. Byrd lead the gathering to the throne of grace
with his powerful invocation.
Bishop Philip R. Cousin read the Old Testament
reading which was Proverbs 31:10-31; Rev. Dr. Ricky Spain read 1 Corinthians 15:
35-50 for the Epistle and Bishop T. Larry Kirkland closed the Scripture
readings with his presentation of the Gospel, drawn from John 15:1-11.
There
were two sections of tributes raised for Mrs. Ming. In the first group,
Mrs. Barbara Lowe brought the tribute from the Connectional Women's Missionary
Society, Episcopal Supervisor, Mrs. Mary Ann Norris represented the
Connectional Ministers' Spouses and Widows Alliance; Mrs. Forestyne Ogden stood
for the First Disgtrict Ministers' Spouses and Widows Alliance and Mrs. Jane
Harris brought the tribute from the First District Lay Organization.
The
tributes were divided by a strong choir rendition of "Plenty Good
Room." The choir, directed by Carolyn Fletcher was drawn from across
the connection and was a fitting tribute in and of itself for a Mrs. Ming whose
love for music was renown.
Presiding Elder George T. Sims, Jr. lead the sound
round of tributes, representing the Presiding Elders; Rev. Dr. Jeffrey
Leath came next on behalf of the Pastors and Minister of the A.M.E. Church
and struck fire in the church despite observing a limited speaking time; Bishop
Neil Irons, was next up representing the World Methodist Council; Dr. Richard A.
Lewis came representing the General Officers of the AME Church; Episcopal
Supervisor, Mrs. Dorothy Young paid tribute from the Bishops Wives and Bishop
William P. DeVeaux closed the second round of tributes representing the Council
of Bishops of the AME Church.
After another selection by the choir,
"Come, Come Ye Saints," which really stirred all in attendance, Mr.
Jamie C. Hardeway, Mrs. Ming's Great-Nephew from Patterson, New Jersey came
representing the family.
Before him had come tales of her musical prowess, of
her caring, and love and devotion for people and of praise for her service as an
Episcopal supervisor and friend to all whom she encounter.
Hardeway really
brought it home, painting his heart-drawn picture of Mrs. Ming as just his plain
old Aunt Bunny, who was there for him in good time and bad times and who seemed
to be able to see right through him. He said she would put him back on
course in a gentle loving way. Warmth exuded from his recollections and
there were more than a few moist eyes in the sanctuary before he had completed
his recollections.
Dr. Clement Fugh did the acknowledgement for the
family. This was followed by an organ medley of Mrs. Ming's favorite hymns
which included, "O Master, Let Me Walk With Thee," "O Thou in
Whose Presence," "and How Great Thou Art."
The Eulogy was
delivered by Bishop Vinton R. Anderson, Presiding Prelate of the Second
Episcopal District of the AME Church.
Bishop Anderson told the gathering that
he and Bishop Ming were roommates back in college and that there bond and
friendship had stretched throughout their careers.
"He called me and told
me Edith had passed away and that he wanted me with him at the service in
Philadelphia but that I would have to stand in the pulpit, so here I am,"
Bishop Anderson began.
"A eulogist really says what everyone else has
said but...in a different way."
Bishop Anderson remembered the notes of
encouragement that Mrs. Ming used to send to others. He said they were
signed with a treble clef and her trademark phrase, "Press On."
That phrase was at the center of most of the day's tributes, and Bishop
Anderson's eulogy was no exception as he sought out the Biblical roots of Mrs.
Ming's "press on."
He said He believed she drew it from Philippians
3:12-14
Not as though I had already attained, either were already
perfect: but I follow after, if that I may apprehend that for which also I am
apprehended of Christ Jesus.Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended:
but [this] one thing [I do], forgetting those things which are behind, and
reaching forth unto those things which are before,
I press toward the mark for
the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.